During the lunch break on the day, friend D sent a WeChat saying that she was getting married, and her wedding was chosen for Christmas. This news, I suddenly stunned my sleepy nerves. With my understanding of her, she and the prospective groom have been acquainted, know each other, and fell in love for only 2 months, hurried into marriage, it is not like her school.
She is a "choosy" person who is not willing to do it in the years when she has a lot of youth to squander. I always think that there are still many ways to go, the bigger world can work hard, and more scenery can be seen. Therefore, in the face of the elders’ years of marriage, she always smiled and said, “How can I easily give a person once in a lifetime?â€
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It is such a person, she said to be married. How much I know about her, how surprised I was. In my repeated questioning, she said that it is never time to measure the standard of emotional depth.
That night, I saw the man who made my good friend resolutely go to marriage. Their smiles touched each other. She smiled at his side and waved, and I realized that I was doing it. She did not make this decision.
Some people are floating in love, and they may not be able to meet a right person for the rest of their lives. And it took only 2 months for someone to find someone who would like to spend the rest of their lives. We said that Xiao D is lucky, but it is what she deserves. If she had listened to the advice of her relatives and friends and found a safe person to marry, how could she meet the current Mr·Right?
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Let me talk about another friend, Li Jie. When she graduated in 2012, her parents found a job in the town that was fair and stable, and everyone else was embarrassed. However, she hesitated, tangled, and finally did not go, chose a path of self-media entrepreneurship. Although it is not a splendid glory now, it can also get the praise of "promising" from the neighbors of the town.
Many years ago, I had learned from her in the dilemma of stability and arrogance. She said that everything she has now is because of her luck. The entrepreneurial business just happened to catch up with the era of WeChat public account, and it is inexplicable every day. Made a name.
Perhaps as Li Sister said, her small success is the arrival of good fortune. But if she follows her parents' arrangements, then the pie of the Internet world can't get on her head.
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To some extent, luck is the result of a self-selection. The traditional Chinese yin and yang study records that creating luck is a skill and an attitude towards the life that you control. You can attract more good luck by making a specific change in your behavior. This reminds me of the law of attraction, that is, when you really want something or achieve a certain goal, then the whole universe will unite to help you.
This means that all will be meaningless, and all submissions are a waste of luck. Love is like work, and work is like home life.
You don't have to wait in a home you don't like, live a life you don't want, and you don't have to choose a style that is popular and popular. Like leisure and simplicity, then choose "Northern Sunshine"; prefer introverted retro, "if" series is a good choice; only appreciate the personality, B8 customization can meet your needs. This is the 8+N lifestyle that Qumei Home has carefully created. The ideal life always has the one you want.
Life is only a few decades, we are going to marry the most motivated man, do the favorite job, live in the most comfortable home, and be the luckiest person in the next population.
I always remember that before leaving on the day, Li Jie stood on my shoulder and said, "I don't have anything extraordinary. The only thing I can be proud of is that every decision I make is loyal to myself."
May you and me, like Li Jie, be loyal to myself every day in the future, with everything that I like.
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